The one's that fly don't get much bigger than commercial aeroplanes, though size varies by species.
This is a common misconception, dragons that large with out wing spands that would be inviable, unless they had a biological system similar to jet engines...
Well, dragon with size (meaning mass, wingspan, length ...) of commercial aeroplane would have minimal flight speed (stall speed) of commercial aeroplane. which is around 200km/h. Imagine landing in this speed. Imagine taking off in this speed (involving running, probably). Not probable. Luckily, weighting less that airplane is not so hard even with same length, not speaking about same wingspan ... and with lots of hot air it's really simple.
Of course, with magic there is no limit (which explains celestian dragons or space dragons like
Granny). Also, with magic there are dragons able to change size (or shape ...).